A practice still considered taboo, but a source of great pleasure for those who have embraced it. According to a 2019 Ifop survey , 26% of men and 15% of women have already experienced analingus with their partner. So, why not you? Have you never dared to take the plunge? We'll give you all the keys and techniques to master analingus.
What is anilingus?
Anilingus, also called " rimjob" or "rimming," is a sexual practice that involves the oral stimulation of one's partner's anus . In other words, a person uses their mouth, tongue, or lips to kiss, caress, lick, or penetrate the other person's anus in order to provide sexual pleasure.
How to perform anilingus?
It's essential to distinguish between two areas , as with nipples : the external and internal parts. Start with the external part, going gently with kisses and caresses , then use your tongue to lick around the opening.
Once the person is sufficiently relaxed and aroused, you can move on to the internal part by making back-and-forth movements similar to penetration.
Be creative and have fun, your partner will feel it! Play with the flat of your tongue and tease with the tip to reach more specific areas. Don't forget to incorporate your teeth into the game, not to bite their anus, but to nibble on their buttocks ;)
For a successful anilingus, don't forget the lubricant!
Unlike the vagina or penis, the anus does not lubricate itself naturally. Even when aroused, this area remains dry. Therefore, using lubricant is essential to ensure an unforgettable and comfortable experience.
Can you have an anal orgasm? Yes, especially with a touch of Q Balm
Yes ! The anus has many nerve endings; it's a very sensitive erogenous zone! Thus, it is entirely possible to reach orgasm through well-executed anilingus .
An essential element to enhance your analingus sessions after sex is the application of Q Balm . Apply a small amount of this balm to your partner to soften the experience and strengthen your intimacy.
Anilingus: what are the risks and how to prevent them?
Analingus can carry some risks of transmitting infections such as gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis A, herpes, and human papillomavirus (HPV). There is also a risk of HIV transmission if the partners have injuries or are bleeding.
However, according to Sida Info Service, there is no documented transmission of HIV through anilingus, as the virus is not transmitted through saliva. Nevertheless, it is advisable to avoid this practice after anal penetration to prevent bleeding.
How to prepare for anilingus?
To prepare for analingus, it is advisable to maintain rigorous hygiene to reduce the risk of discomfort or bacterial transmission. Here are the steps:
Wash your anal area with warm water and mild soap, taking care to remove all dirt.
You can use a rectal enema if it makes you comfortable, although it is not strictly necessary.
Make sure that you and your partner are comfortable with the practice and consider using a barrier such as a dental dam for added safety.
Communication and mutual consent remain essential for this practice. Talk about it together without taboo!