What is dirty talk?

" Dirty talking " in French consists of using words considered crude in order to increase desire and pleasure during sex.
While some people prefer silence, others get instantly excited as soon as you speak to them... And you?

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Good dirty talk is the perfect blend of praise and degradation . Yes, really.

First, let's talk about it

Before engaging in dirty talk, it is essential to test the waters to understand the other person's desires.

A poorly placed vulgarity in the middle of the act can be a shocking passion killer. So discuss it frankly: " Slutty, is it a go or a miss ?"

Go gradually!

If you've never used dirty talk before and don't dare to start, begin with lighthearted phrases :
- You're beautiful, I want you…
- Take me, I want to make you come...

Complimenting the body works really well too: I love your breasts, your buttocks, etc…

Show your true colors

It's a very basic rule that works really well in dirty talk : announce what you're going to do . "I'm going to... " while doing it; it's incredibly simple but incredibly hot .

The right tone

Once you get going, don't neglect your intonation . A dirty word that isn't properly acknowledged, poorly articulated, or said with too much vulgarity will kill the mood.
You have to believe in it and use the right tone to make the pleasure really ignite.

Focus on your native language

The idea isn't to fake an accent, but if you're of another nationality, feel free to use words from your native language to turn the other person on. Mamacita, I want you ... Honestly, We love the travel mood.

Give me those killer eyes

Want to add some desire? Look into her eyes and give her your most beautiful look while whispering naughty words to her ... You'll see, it will change the atmosphere.

Don't force it

There are the sexually mute , who hate being spoken to, or worse: being forced to answer.

Dirty talk is n't a quiz , so to avoid flops , know how to express yourself while avoiding overly direct questions... It will avoid awkward silences, actually.

Express your pleasure

You don't need to go far to get the ears excited: embracing moans (especially for men, sometimes subject to a strange, unspoken injunction...) is incredibly sexy . So there's no shame in the pleasure.

Keep your promises

And yes, dirty talk does involve commitment , in a way... Your words shouldn't exceed your actions. Basically, if you announce "I'm going to make you come until you meow," well... it's better to make her come and meow at the end, at the risk of coming across as... a loudmouth!