What is dirty talk?
Dirty talking in French involves using words that are considered crude in order to increase desire and pleasure during sex.While some people prefer silence, others get instantly excited when you talk to them... What about you?
Adage
A good dirty talk is the perfect combination of the complimentary and the degrading . Yes, yes.First, let's talk about it
Before dirty talking, it is essential to test the waters to find out what the other person wants. A misplaced vulgarity in the middle of the act can be a shocking turn-off. So discuss it frankly: “ Dirty girl, is it a hit or miss ?”Take it crescendo
If you have never practiced dirty talk and you don't dare to start, start with light sentences :
- You're beautiful, I want you...
- Take me, I want to make you cum...
Complimenting the body works great too: I love your boobs, your butt, etc.
Announce the color
This is a very basic rule that works very well in dirty talk : announce what you are going to do . Here, I am going to... while doing it, it is ultra simple but ultra hot .The right tone
Once you've started, don't neglect your intonation . A dirty talk that's not assumed, poorly articulated, or said with too much vulgarity, it ruins the atmosphere.
You have to believe in it and set the right tone so that the pleasure flares up.
Bet on your mother tongue
The idea is not to fake an accent, but if you are from another nationality, do not hesitate to use words from your native language to warm up the other. Mamacita, I want you ... Frankly, we love the travel mood.
Make the revolver eyes
Want to add some desire? Look into his eyes and give him your best look when you whisper your naughty words to him ... You'll see, it'll change the mood.
Don't force it
There are the sex mutes , who hate being spoken to, or worse: being forced to answer.
Dirty talk is not a quiz , so to avoid flops , know how to express yourself by avoiding questions that are too direct... That will avoid awkward silences, in fact.
Express your pleasure
No need to go very far to excite the ears: assuming the moans (especially for men, sometimes subjected to a strange silent injunction...), it's ultra sexy . So no shame in enjoyment.
Keep your promises
And yes, dirty talk commits you , in a way... Your language should not exceed your gestures. Basically, if you announce "I'm going to make you cum until you meow" well... It's better to make you cum and meow at the end, at the risk of coming across as... a loudmouth!