THINGS TO NORMALIZE IN BED
Before reading this article, go and have a look at part 1 and then part 2 ;)
Sometimes it sucks
Let's say it! Sometimes it sucks...
All it takes is being in a bad mood, whether it's too long or not long enough, or suddenly feeling lazy, for the sexual relationship to end in:
- So, did you like it?
- Yeah... Meh.
Have no experience
There's a beginning to everything. It doesn't matter if you have no experience or are a beginner, because everyone goes through it . Let yourself be guided and take note of what your partner does - caresses, kisses on the neck, hair pulling, noises... Mimicry is the secret to success.Having complexes
Finding yourself in front of someone who is particularly comfortable with their body can sometimes be surprising, especially if on our side it's the opposite... To be more comfortable , It is important to discuss it with your partner and find common ground, like turning off the light. Simple, basic.
Say no if there is no condom*
*In the case of protected sexual intercourse
Start warming up and then saying no because your partner doesn't want to use a condom shouldn't be a hindrance! The most important thing in this story is YOU so it doesn't matter if he's not happy. Dare to say NO and protect yourself !
Talk contraception
Talking about contraception with your partner (regular or not) is essential . Condom, pill, implant, IUD ... Often, it is the woman who is the only one who suffers this mental pressure . While hey, the possible result concerns both parties (and we are only fertile a few days a month, us!)
Don't do it every day
It's ok to not feel like having sex every day. Some people have a high libido and others have a low libido , but no one is wrong.
If you feel a discrepancy in libido between you and your partner, discuss it freely. Explain how you see things, what place sex has for you, in your relationship, etc. And read our article on libido on the baubo.fr blog!